Tuesday, 10 September 2013

On the Wonderful Effect of Divine Love

Extracted from

MEDITATION ON THE IMITATION OF CHRIST: A VEDANTIC INTERPRETATION

by Swami Chidakarananda and Sister Jayanti.


1. The Learner: Father in heaven, Father of Jesus Christ my Lord, I bless you for deigning to remember me and my poverty. Father of mercies, God of all comfort, I thank you for refreshing me with your comfort, little though I deserve any comfort at all. To you and your only-begotten Son, together with the Holy-Ghost, the Comforter, I give blessing and glory always, both now and for ages without end. Ah, Lord God, you the holy one, you my lover, when you come into my heart, the whole of my inmost being will leap with joy. You are my glory, the comfort of my heart; my stronghold and my refuge in my hour of peril.

It is said that grace is when one receives much more than one deserves. Nowhere is this felt as intensely as in spiritual life.
When love touches the heart, all our previous troubles are forgotten, we feel an overwhelming gratitude engulfing us, and we thank God and the universe for this sweet and rare experience that so utterly exceeds anything we could have thought about it. Then we sing a million praises and rejoice in humble gratefulness; we feel and know that we are blessed.

2. As yet I am but weak in love, unsure in virtue; that is why I need your support, your comfort. So come to me, come to me often and teach me what is in your holy laws. Set me free from evil passions; heal my heart of all its ill regulated affections; so that, whole and pure in my inmost being, I may become ready to love, strong to endure suffering, steadfast to persevere.

The mind cannot stay all the time in the peaks of divine love. And if we have recently awakened to the realm of love, we may occasionally feel that our old habits and tendencies slip back into our life when love seems to depart or shines less brightly. We may feel, as Kempis says, “weak in love, unsure in virtue.” But there is no cause to be afraid; as we shall see in the coming verses, once we fall into the blazing furnace of love, it will purify all dross and rekindle our forgotten divine glory.


3. A mighty force it is, this thing love, mighty and altogether good; alone it takes the weight from every burden, alone it bears evenly the uneven load. It bears a burden as if no burden were there, makes the bitter things of life sweet and good to taste. To love Jesus is a wondrous thing; it urges men on to mighty deeds, stirs up in them the desire for a life ever more holy. Love must be ever mounting on high, unfettered by things below; love would ever be free, a stranger to every worldly desire; fearful least its inward vision grow clouded, least some worldly gain should encumber its advance, some worldly misfortune bring it headlong down. There is nothing sweeter than love, nothing stronger, nothing higher, nothing wider, nothing fuller, nothing better in heaven or earth; for love is born of God, and only in God, above all that he has created, can it find rest.

When man attains the highest degrees of divine love, it permeates our life entirely and it reshapes all our thoughts and actions, rendering us unable to do anything that may interrupt its blessed current. But in the initial stages love must be protected just as we protect a child from any kind of harm. Therefore Sri Ramakrishna used to advice to first develop and strengthen our love for God, to make it impervious to all external influences. Then we can live in the world without fear, for once love is established in our heart, everything we experience will simply bring us one more chance to feel the touch of love.
“If you enter the world without first cultivating love for God, you will be entangled more and more. You will be overwhelmed with its danger, its grief, its sorrows. And the more you think of worldly things, the more you will be attached to them.
  “First rub your hands with oil and then break open the jack-fruit; otherwise they will be smeared with its sticky milk. First secure the oil of divine love, and then set your hands to the duties of the world. [1]
There is a beautiful similarity in this verse between the way in which Vedanta describes the Absolute and the manner in which Kempis explains love. Vedanta describes God as Satchidananda, i.e. Existence, Knowledge and Bliss in an absolute degree. Similarly, Kempis tells us that “love is born of God, and only in God, above all that he has created, can it find rest.” This is so because God is that very love: perfect, immortal love. When this divine love is experienced through the selfish influence of the ego it manifests as passion, greed, etc., but when the ego begins to fade love starts to manifests its unselfish, all-pervading influence, and we begin to love all without distinction, for God is love, and he is all.


4. A man in love treads on air; he runs for very joy. He is a free man; nothing can hold him back. He gives all for all, finding his rest in one who is high above all else, the source and origin of all that is good. For gifts he has no regard, but turns to him who is their giver, who is above all good gifts. Love often knows no limits; its impetuous fire leaps across every boundary. Love feels no burden, makes light of toil, strives for things beyond its strength. Love never tries to make out that anything is impossible; everything, in the eyes of love, is both possible and lawful. Love, then, can do everything; many a task there is that love can fulfil and many a wish it can make effective, where the man who does no love is powerless and fails.

Real love is, in a certain way, a kind of madness. When we love, all the cares and considerations that we normally have in connection with the body are forgotten. When man is enraptured in the madness of divine love, his behaviour does not often follow any of the conventional patterns of reason or the norms of society. Sri Ramakrishna frequently said that in this world everybody is mad about something; some are mad after money, others after name and fame, etc., and there are some very fortunate ones who are mad after God.
This divine love can only be expressed in terms of human love and human relationships; so we find in the life of many saints and mystics that those who were possessed of this divine madness worshiped God in a very intimate way, without barriers – as friend, as child or even as lover. Swami Vivekananda describes the characteristics of this intense love thus:
“Often it so happens that divine lovers who sing of this divine love accept the language of human love in all its aspects as adequate to describe it. Fools do not understand this; they never will. They look at it only with the physical eye. They do not understand the mad throes of this spiritual love. How can they? ‘For one kiss of Thy lips, O Beloved! One who has been kissed by Thee, has his thirst for Thee increasing for ever, all his sorrows vanish, and he forgets all things except Thee alone.’ Aspire after that kiss of the Beloved, that touch of His lips which makes the Bhakta[2] mad, which makes a man a god. To him, who has been blessed with such a kiss, the whole of nature changes, worlds vanish, suns and moons die out, and the universe itself melts away into that one infinite ocean of love. That is the perfection of the madness of love.”[3]



[1] Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna, 81-82.
[2] Devotee.
[3] Complete Works of Swami Vivekananda, Vol. III, 98.

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